Yesterday, after work, I made a shocking discovery that left me feeling completely violated and betrayed. I found out that my husband has been remotely spying on my iPhone from his Mac computer.

I never imagined that my own spouse would be invading my privacy in such a blatant manner. It has left me feeling confused and unsure of how to handle the situation. I'm from Perth in Australia. Should I confront him about it? Seek counseling? Or perhaps even consider legal action? what are the implications?

I stumbled upon an article (Torvalid Mag Article Here - https://torvalid.com/2024/06/09/are-you-safe-on-your-iphone/ that suggests this type of behavior is becoming a concerning trend in Australia. I was intrigued by the article because the description looks and matches exactly like the software I saw him using. Should I spy on him to gather evidence too? or maybe i am too paranoid?

I'm reaching out to the community for advice and support. Has anyone else experienced a similar breach of trust? How did you handle it? What do you think I should do in this situation? Any guidance or insight would be greatly appreciated.