After watching countless software projects crash and burn (including my own app years ago), I noticed something: we treat code like it should sprint before it can stand.
Think about your typical project lifecycle:
🍼 Baby Stage (MVP/Prototype)
Focus is pure survival - just get basic features working
Everything is fragile and breaks easily
Need constant monitoring and tweaks
Can't handle heavy user loads
Technical debt is high but that's okay
👶 Toddler Stage (Early Production)
Starting to implement proper testing
Learning from early user feedback
Building CI/CD pipelines
Making lots of mistakes but iterating quickly
Code base is walking but still stumbling
👦 Teenager Stage (Scaling Phase)
Rapid feature development
Finding product-market fit
Building out microservices
Taking on technical challenges
More stable but still needs oversight
👨 Adult Stage (Enterprise Ready)
Rock-solid infrastructure
Mature deployment processes
Innovation from strength
Teaching/documentation focus
Sustainable scaling
Yet what do we do? We try to implement enterprise-level architecture in MVPs. We attempt microservices before basic features work. We optimize prematurely.
Remember: Even unicorns like Instagram launched with a simple photo-sharing PHP app. Twitter started as a basic Rails app. They gave their code base time to grow naturally.
After seeing this pattern repeat across both business and software development, I wrote more about these developmental stages in my book Business as a Baby.
What stage is your project at? How are you handling the growing pains?