I recently realized that, as a woman in the tech field, I harbored a reluctance to be associated with the term "geek."

My name is Laura Durieux, and I am a versatile web developer, specializing in both front-end and back-end, a web designer, a Twitch streamer, and a presenter at RTBF iXPÉ.

Two years ago, I achieved the honor of winning the gold medal in Web Technologies at WorldSkills Belgium, which led to numerous interviews where I found myself actively rejecting the label of "geek." My aim was to serve as a feminine role model in the Belgian tech industry, and I felt compelled to distance myself from the stereotypical association with being a "geek."

Geek !== feminity ?

Reflecting on this decision, I realize it may have been driven by fear. I was apprehensive about being perceived as less feminine.

Why don't you ask men ?

Jealousy might have played a role as well. When I recall instances where a businessman identifies himself as a developer/programmer on a TV show, I rarely hear the presenter ask, "So, can we call you a geek?" This might have occurred, but it doesn't seem as prevalent for women. Men seem to be more inclined to categorize us.

The image the society gives to the term "Geek"

In contemporary society, when the term "geek" is associated with a girl or a woman, it often takes on a sexualized and fantastical tone. Similar to the "Gamer girl" archetype, this aligns with the fantasies of men.

Still not convinced? Ask a generative image AI to show you a "Girl geek." You'll see.

Even ChatGPT acknowledges this reality.

Today

Today, I no longer fear being labeled a geek. I understand that this won't hinder me from being a feminine representation in the tech field, even if it doesn't align with the stereotypical image of a "female geek." To clarify, if you want to embrace that image, it's entirely acceptable, and no one should pass judgment. The issue I want to highlight is the unwarranted categorization of women as geeks solely based on their involvement in the tech field.

And you? What do you think?

Let me know in the comments!

Hey! 👋 My name is Laura Durieux. I am a Web Developper, streamer on Twitch, presenter @ RTBF iXPE in Belgium and recently speaker.

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