When life and work are unstable, how can there be time or opportunities for growth?

Whenever I want to accomplish something, life throws a bunch of obstacles in my way. I won't deny that this can make you mentally stronger, but once your mindset becomes strong enough, you start to realize you don't want this kind of resilience anymore. These things, unrelated to your goals, only leave you feeling mentally and physically drained.

Aside from faith, I can't think of anything that could change the current situation.